communication thoughts

dear boo,

would like to share some events that i have seen and heard for the day - 3rd day of year 08.

morning - in the mrt - journey from newton to orchard
a dark, gloomy mrt tunnel turn into something to look at. part of the wall were decorated with the tvs advertisement panel. very interesting. one of the ad would be m&m chocolates! if you are staying in the red line, i believe you should have seen that. - m&m - remind me of times i was so craved for as part of the stress management and you just kept on complaining that what's on earth this woman will eat chocolate first thing in the morning before going to work.
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evening - orchard's mrt underground passageway
during these time - everyday, there is a blind man will sit there - at the same spot - playing music instruments and sing different songs. today, he sang "i swear" from boyz ii men. it was really a heart-catching song - for me at least. everytime walking passed this place, me myself will automatically channeling myself in hearing what he has for "us" - mrt pedestrian - students, workers, parents, lovers and even tourists. he never let the passageway gets silent. he has a wonderful voice to sing whatever songs.

evening - toa payoh's underground passageway
there is this beggar which has no arm at all and there is a pair of junior school students - a boy and a girl. both of them was walking in front of me and suddenly this girl "talking" to this boy something like - "look, that man has no arms at all" - in their sign language. the boy simply reply to her with another set of sign language; while both of them curiously keep on looking at the beggar even though they had stepped on the going-up escalator - silences between them. they did not "communicate" much, but communicated "enough" of what they want to share to each others.

then-after, it make me thought things that happened between us. maybe we have communicate too much because we can "talk" - expressing ourselves better. maybe that's the reason why, we did not communicate for almost 2 weeks now. and you claimed there are nothing we need to talk about - we have talked all.

too little of communication = we will lost someone important
too much of communication = we will still lost someone important
communicate what is enough = we would maintain someone important